There are no defeats its just feedback
There are no defeats - it's just feedback.
In NLP there is such persuppozitsiya (assumption). Assume that this is so. The man wanted to get rich, established business, lost money. You can call yourself a defeatist, regret, suffering, blaming everyone sick. And if you believe that NLP says, well, at least tolerate. This is not a defeat but a good lesson that he gives?
1. At least I now know what to do. More mistakes never happen again. Already well, though, the lesson cost is expensive, but very memorable. Life is a good teacher, and all good is not cheap. What do you want?
2. What should have been? Here's an interesting question. The answer to it will give many opportunities for future business. After all the mistakes we learn better, certainly, the mistakes of other people, but if presented the case, then on their too.
3. Appeared experience, it can pass on to others, you can keep. But you will listen when you tell someone who can repeat the error, as do not need you in this matter is already an expert, the experience is. Well, if that tells you how to do it is necessary, it will be a godsend for those interested, will save him money, maybe say thanks, and even share.
4. By adopting this assumption of NLP, you can stop to worry, save a lot of energy, which is useful for creating the new, and not regret the old one. Remembering the past, rest assured, the best, of course, lies ahead.
5. Maybe feedback from life is to tip - Get something else. As they say, if the first attempt fails, then skydiving is not for you.
6. Or, do the same, but different. After all, for example, the path to the home can be a different, longer, shorter, on foot, by car, bus. Choose a better short, if you want to be home soon. Also in the business, if you first went long and not the right way, get lost, now select the most optimal.
7. Be proud of yourself. Make a mistake, find the strength to fix everything. You can, of course, worry and do nothing, but if you understand how to act in another way, what prospects are opening up that wasted time to lose. Rejoice yourself, you are not one of those who surrender, you are one of those who go ahead and get what they want.
8. Remember the great scientists who discovered the laws that are included in the story. They did not consider the error - in defeat. What are you worse? Join the great!
9. Fight with the circumstances, the case unproductive. What was then passed. Experience and knowledge obtained, can they just disappear? This is not a defeat, it stops half way through, it is necessary to look around and think, go ahead.
10. Defeats No, this is a new opening in life. Challenge! When all is well, everyone can be successful. And when hard? Handle only ones! So will choose myself! Circumstances have changed, they have not changed you. You can be successful!
And the last. In NLP there are many useful things, get you. To get started, simply "try on" like a garment, this new belief. No losses, there is only feedback from life. If you enjoy "wearing" the health, if you do not fit - Find the best belief! Good luck!
