For each pair sooner or later happen quarrel. Of course, after some conflict may be two ways. The first way - immediately disperse, since there is no strength to withstand further such a life. The second way - to take a step towards reconciliation. The latter path, of course, be more productive and useful. After all, we are interested to keep the relationship, rather than interrupt them immediately to the rest of his life. For all the seeming simplicity of a step to reconciliation is not all easy. Most women consider themselves very proud, they do not want to admit their mistakes and move towards a partner. As a result, they take a wait and are willing to partner the first to make a step forward. But not always their desires are fulfilled, because a man may consider himself right and not follow the tastes of women. Your quarrels became frequent, and every time relations becoming worse and worse? And do not you think that you're just not as mirites? put up - this is also science!

In life there are different situations. In some cases we, poor women both want to be in front of us stood on his knees and begged forgiveness. But what if my entire adult life no one did us that way? But then, we have repeatedly regretted that the time has not managed to keep relations ... In order to continue to avoid repeating such mistakes, try to learn how to make a step towards reconciliation. After all we women need to be wise, have patience and ability to forgive. And it is useless to assume the role of stern accuser, blaming his own beloved man in all imaginable and unimaginable sin. True happiness is only possible if there is goodness in your heart and ability to forgive.

How can we make a step towards reconciliation? Of course, it all depends on your situation. Suppose you have a quarrel broke out between the over time has not washed dishes. Started quarrel over a trifle, and then you remember all the sins to each other for several years lived together. As a result, you harbored evil against each other and your family the Cold War. " You are wise and understanding woman can correct the situation. Try to find the best way to do it, because you are better than others know his weaknesses and habits. For example, you can in the evening to bring him his favorite cake with a smile and say that this sweetness may temper the bitterness of your argument.

If your husband - a man with humor and understanding, he completely understands your desire to make peace. And from then on you will just as soon forget about such unpleasant incident. But, maybe, your husband - a man proud and touchy? Then he can not respond to your cake, and will continue to look at you as a criminal. If you are interested in continuing the relationship, you can just admit they were wrong. Very simple words: "Forgive me, dear, I seem a little a little heated" can do a lot more useful than a long grudge against her husband. Not all fights are so insignificant, as conflicts over the unwashed dishes, not cooked dinner on time, etc.

 Imagine that your husband does not give you sufficient sums of money, without which you feel to be extremely unhappy. Sooner or later you will not survive and create a scandal. But sooner or later someone will have to make steps towards reconciliation. Suppose now that you otherwise have a look at their spending habits to the right and left, we decided to agree with the desire to save her husband. In this case the best solution is a mutually beneficial compromise. You are free to offer a convenient solution for you husband, it is possible that he will agree. If the proposed compromise will not cause his delight, that it will offer its own solution to the problem. In other words, to reconciliation took place, you must make yourself and her husband to look at the cause of the conflict more seriously and together find a way out of crisis.