Uncertain connection
They say that girls are fragile, timid creatures, valuing relationships, afraid to hurt your loved ones. Perhaps this is so. But why is the girl so often recklessly risking love, engaging in dubious connection? Girls are often accused of lacking logic. We are justified. Say that intuition is important, and in general ... We have logic, she just ... special ... Women! This is the woman's logic that manifests itself in all its glory, when the girls are in stable, long-lasting relationship or even a legal marriage, suddenly go to the left in order to improve relations with a steady partner. It's really strange method of improving relations, which nevertheless is used quite often. In this case, the girls are a lot of arguments to justify the betrayal:
- My betrayal will help me to forgive his infidelity;
- My betrayal will show him that I demanded the girl, I want many men, learning of this, it will be more cherished by me;
- My betrayal will not let him relax, he will always take care of me, fearing that I had not rescued the other;
- My betrayal will help refresh our intimate life;
- My betrayal will help me to love him again with the same force.
And so on to infinity! In fact, before checking on his own experience of folk wisdom, "a good leftist strengthens marriage, it is better to try less drastic ways to improve relations. It is rather strange look for a solution to your problems in a strange bed. Sadly, cheating has too many side effects to be good medicine. Here and in feelings of guilt, jealousy, and loss of confidence and fear of exposure. And a lot of trouble occurrence which is too likely. Remember that going to the left, you first of all to gamble your relationship.
And all the ranting that treason can solve some problems, more like self-deception. If you want to really establish a relationship in a pair, remember that the cure is a candid conversation. And if you want to sleep with someone else, it's your right, but it's better to call a spade a spade. Therapy is a therapy, and betrayal is a betrayal and a huge risk in the bargain. So do not deceive itself. And be ready to assume responsibility for the consequences of the decision.
