You know all the unwritten laws of life are learned the gold just in practice. I remember in our school newsletter, consisting of about sixty people, had one medal, and it is not gold, and silver! This girl was really very capable. Now let's think together - so whether it is important to spend so much effort, nerves and health, to be clever in the eyes of teachers and take care of their parents? What is success? " Is the success of the sum of red, blue, striped and other diplomas? If as a child someone has instilled in my light head unwritten truth that success and wealth - this is not the amount of gold medals and honors, believe me, the fate would have saved me from sleepless nights and nervous voice recorder endless memorization of rules and formulas .

I am familiar with many people claiming that they learn in the third and even fourth institution of higher education. In this case, they have endless debts and a miserable salary. Not logical to spend the time, the most valuable currency, the spiritual self or trainings and seminars on success and wealth? So whether or not to scold the child, much less spank him, when instead you expect five of the control he brings to three? Understandably, if a child is gifted from birth, just like the boy electronics from children's film, with the highest IQ, who set Nedetskie records in sports, and in mathematics and music, then he will easily get five.

But every child is an individual - it is not you, and he did not electronics! He - an independent personality with all the strengths and weaknesses, aspirations and tastes. Do not try to sculpt something out of it convenient for you, teachers and society. Indeed, many parents even rework their children out of left-handers in the right-hander. And why? Because that's correct, so it is accepted for centuries! Oh, those standards and rules! How are they bothering me! How did they cripple the psyche of people! How do they break your fate! Personally, I also oppose the accelerated learning system, when twelve-year child finishes school and enters college. Why turn children into robots? Why deprive them of the bright period of life - childhood, when you can throw snowballs, sledding, sports, laugh and play with your friends?

Thought the creative process, striving for the highest and best, logical thought, persistence in achieving goals, self-love - that's the main thing in the school education! But not five. No need to artificially accelerate the natural processes. For example, if you take out prematurely from the egg has not yet fledgling chick, it is likely to be very weak and may even die. So here, dear mom and dad. Do not make the child go to the walker, causing damage further flanked by an immature child's spine, to follow the settings of the "know all the letters of the alphabet before the walk." Because instead of the expected child prodigy you get creative regression, cognitive apathy and ill health of the child.

Of course, I'm not saying that school and higher education to anything. It is necessary. Moreover, the teacher of elementary grades depend love or dislike of the child to a subject, which might predetermine his future profession, the source of his income. But I am opposed to our children fit for a single standard, ignoring their analytical and logical ability. First of all, we must listen to the inner impulses of the child, his desire and interest in any subject, form of art, etc.

We must instill in him a desire to learn the mysterious cosmic laws, unknown civilizations, explore biographies of wealthy people, a thirst for lifelong learning positive thinking and spiritual self, to learn foreign languages. This will open up new opportunities for the child, and this will be your great merit. Give your child the right to choose or not to be someone, want or do not want something to seek or strive for something, be interested or not interested in someone. Give him the freedom to choose their future profession, based on his talent.