What is your ideal?
They say you can learn to smoke and the hare. Yes, but why? There are boyfriends, which are badly even the most severe taming. So, for whom you do not have to waste time? If you work hard on your relationship and mutual understanding, if you make every possible effort, but your boyfriend does not want everything to turn into a man of your dreams, it's time to think about the effectiveness of your techniques and perspectives of further relations.
To start analyze their ideal. And not too excessive demands you bring to it? Your requests are feasible at all? Or a man of your dreams - pumped stallion with a thick wallet, an outstanding intellect and ability to write a poem in your honor? " What is your ideal? Be realist. Ask yourself this question: a man of my dreams can hobnob in nature?
If you think your ideal - not a utopia, look closer to her boyfriend. Maybe it is not too suitable material? As words of the song: "I am blinded him from what was ...." Quite possibly, you'd better find a more flexible candidate who could change and make compromises. Boyfriend obviously malopodhodyaschy candidate for the proud title of man of your dreams, if:
- He himself around the clock trying to convert you, it does not like everything, from color to brown the cutlets fried you and ending with a form of your chest.
- He was just a tyrant, who forbids you everything, including communicating with male colleagues, talking on the phone with her friends and career growth.
- He's married. Not for you. Of course, on how to divert the man from the family, you can write a separate book, but just why? You can see herself that being married to another woman, he goes to the left of you. Where is the guarantee that by marrying you, he will not go to the left to someone else? Is the man of your dreams may act as lead?
In general, before a final decision, try to calm down and at least a week to forget about their important mission "Creation of man of your dreams." Try at least a week to live with her boyfriend, accepting and forgiving of its advantages and disadvantages. I will tell you a little secret, as soon as you start to receive live with a real person (not grinding his teeth, and with pleasure), he seemed to wave a magic wand will go towards himself comes close to your ideal.
