Why are the stronger sex does not understand us?
Men love eyes, women - the ears. Why is the stronger sex does not understand us? Too big difference between the sexes! Can it be overcome? My friend Natasha is doing all the housework herself. Up to a permutation of furniture!
- I have many times asked him to help me! - Natasha complained. - It's useless! He does not pay attention to me.
As once they have been staying in the house Karina, Natasha's sister and part-time psychologist. She came suddenly, and Natasha immediately began feverishly to lay the table, cook a dinner party in parallel eliminating clutter. Vitali at this time, had no qualms presence of a stranger in the house, went on to shoot the monsters in a computer game. When Natasha began to move to the center of the room table and chairs to carry, Karina did not survive:
- Why do not you help Acne? He's a little busy.
Embarrassed Natasha went on the attack:
- Vitali, I need your help.
Zero response! Only the sound of gunfire and the roar of computer monsters.
- Vitali, can you hear me talking to you! Did not you hear me?
Then intervened in the case Karina:
- Vitali, you know what business we want to sit at the table, see that everything is ready. We need men's help.
By Natasha's surprise, Vitaly immediately got up and walked briskly moving table and chairs.
- How do you manage it? - She asked her sister.
- Very simple. All the people are divided on visual, audialov and kinestetikov. First perceive the world in the eye, the second listening, the third - to the touch. And to address them must be, respectively, using verbs of vision, hearing and touch, respectively. Your Acne - a typical visual. And when you say to him: "I told you! Did you hear me? "- No doubt, he could not hear. He simply does not perceive auditory verb "speak" and "heard." But if you turn to him in his language: "Look, what a mess! You see, I need your help! ", He responds as it should.
Use this simple and you rule! To determine who your boyfriend, visual, or audial kinestetik, use this simple test. Ask how it is easier to remember phone number? Should see a visual image, where large numbers will be recorded clearly desired phone. Audial should hear him dictate the number. Kinestetik himself must write. Decide with whom you are dealing, use appropriate language to communicate. Visual react to the words: "see, watch, describe, describe, beautiful, bright, clear, etc. Audial will respond to "listen, speak, speak, loud, resounding," etc. By kinestetiku must be handled with the words "feel, feel, soft, crude, callous, etc. Using a special language gives great results. Verify this by herself!
