As practice shows, the most important question to be answered women looking for partner in life is: " Why do I need a man? "This is not an idle question. The modern woman suffers from the fact that the man she just do not need. Rather, it is not why he might need it. For a nice stay - yes. For sponsorship - yes. For the birth of children - yes. To print the passport and the status of a married woman - yes. But in this case it turns out that the desired type - a fun, nice and legally ringed sire. Find such a man would not be so difficult. This is not enough? You want more? I have no doubt that you want! But what exactly? Maybe you need to share his thoughts with his close friend and receive from him a response? Or is important for you to have a common cause? Or create a space in which to grow and strengthen the family? Think, for each of us your goals and your image of an ideal man.

Talk about home appliances

I propose to consider Why man? for example ... of home appliances - for simplicity and clarity, so forgive me, man. (The excuse I say: the men in the same way may be to speculate about why we need a woman.) So you've decided to buy a washing machine. You know exactly why you need it, that it will do for you what will you do with it, how it will look. You measure the space in your bathroom or kitchen, where it will be your helper, then go to different shops and compare, where cheaper, where is the guarantee for longer, where quality is higher. Then you buy a car, bring home and leave it after the installation work, and themselves go about their business without worrying about the good quality and fast laundered linen. As you can see, taking into account all factors that help make the right choice of home appliances:

- Function;

- Appearance;

- Warranty, service life;

- A place where you can acquire equipment.

Now back to our men. For God's sake, do not think that I would seriously suggest that you choose in the list above as a guide for selecting suitable men! I just suggest that you evaluate, with the carefully whether we choose a man with whom plan to live a life with which we buy consumer products.

Closer to the man

Define a few questions that will help us deal with that, what's a man you really need.

- What man would do in your life? Can you imagine how you will live with him? What to do? Of what will emerge is your marital happiness?

- What will you do when it appears in your life? "What would you like to do next with her man?

- What do you feel when he appears? "What kind of feelings you will experience from everyday life with him?

- What emotions will you call it look?

- What is it interesting?

The answer to this last question depends habitat of your potential life partner. Reply to this question is not as difficult as it seems. What interests you? You would like it to share your interests? You are interesting to themselves? Start with these questions and look for something that interests you, a man will attract. All living things extends to the light. Become a light, to which you want to go near that heat.

From life

And finally, some quotes from the letters my readers.

- I can not even establish a lasting relationship and marriage.

I hope you realize that you build lasting relationships, not representing them, and then, why do you need them is almost impossible. And the answers must be sought in myself, and not choose from the list of socially accepted stereotypes. Otherwise get a man who is good in terms of society, but not right for you.

- Maybe, I do not know how to correct and interesting to talk: when I like a man, I'm lost.

Imagine a situation that you are talking with a man you like, on a very, very interesting your topic, and he shares your interest in her. Or imagine that you are talking to you like a man about himself, to ask him, sincerely admire them. You will be lost?

- I think that things in me, but not in those men with whom I talk ...

It is. The point is always within us, we ourselves are creating our lives. For example, I find this a lot of pluses, and you try!