When people marry, they only think about love, unclouded happiness and ... protect their property. But not always. Marriage of mad love here in Russia, where more popular than on the calculation. Maybe that's why Russian pair so rarely spend time on making a marriage contract. Yes, surprisingly, but true. Marriage contracts, so popular in Europe and the U.S., we are still somewhat suspicious, if not immoral. Most people I know do not even think about drawing up a marriage contract, when the decorations for their relationship. For them, these legal technicalities have been unusual.

On the one hand, it is certainly good. That is, it turns out, the majority of Russian lovers are so distrustful of each other that do not even think about the possibility of deception and betrayal. For us to believe in honesty and integrity wife in all that relates to the material issues - a common thing, but for practical Americans - is a huge risk. So how do you do, where is the golden mean? Why do I need a marriage contract? " Try to discuss with her future husband the possibility of a marriage contract. Ask him: "Darling, you would like us to have signed a marriage contract?", And look at his reaction. If it is a safe and adequate like: "Well, I do not know, in principle, we can" or "I reported this as something not even thought of, therefore, likely that person will not have problems, even if you really need to divide the property.

If you are confident in the generosity and decency of his partner and know that whatever the scenario, he can not leave you without an apartment and child support, yet the reinsurers. Try to find out how he sees the situation and how he would have behaved in the event of separation. This may seem to you sheer stupidity: you're a well know this person, you do love each other and all that. But remember, a man in love and hurt people - they are two different people. That is one thing, as your man is behaving in the midst of the novel, zadarivaya you with flowers and carrying out any your whim.

Quite another matter, as he would behave if, for example, to convict you of treason, or if you tell him that love has passed, and ask for a divorce. Are you sure that he will be as generous? Are you sure that he does not want revenge, and revenge? In this case, take a chance. Many psychologists agree that makes a marriage contract - is not good. After drafting such a document - it's actually an open discussion of a possible divorce. That is creating some negative attitudes at the beginning of family life. So ultimately you decide what is a great boon for you and less risk.