Women's dependence on men
You feel that depends entirely on your vote. You would think that with his appearance in your life you have to behave like a little spoiled child, so as to feel that now is secure and can relax, trusting it. What does the similar degree of dependence on your vote - a strong and sturdy feeling, or your unhealthy egoism?
Nature has created man and woman so that they can not do without each other. Representatives of different sexes are arranged exactly the way that are halves of a whole. On the idea of Mother Nature, a woman needs a man who will perform for her hard physical work and help in the implementation of the main human purpose - the continuation of the human race. Thus, women's dependence on men is programmed by nature and can not be seen as something abnormal.
But it so happens that this relationship goes beyond all boundaries of permissible - you begin to exercise the utmost degree of lack of independence. You may think that all of what you ask for you is vital. You are without a hands-free. He just does a faithful servant all your instructions - Bring, bring, help me. You can not imagine how you will live without his help. You can not imagine that you yourself have to lug heavy bags from the store and that the home will have to get on the subway. And if something breaks, someone who can fix it?
You are substituting the notion of true love desire to receive from your life partner direct benefit. Most likely in this case we are faced with the manifestation of an unhealthy female selfishness. For you, it is natural that your lover has to create all conditions necessary for your comfort, you need to help him in everything, even when seemingly able to handle themselves. You need that you have been faithful and reliable servant, but not beloved.
Remember that true love involves not only the use of the object of your passion to meet your immediate needs, but also a manifestation of your concern in relation to him, the desire to please him. To check the power of your feelings complicate your own life: give up the constant support from your vote.
Take some responsibility for yourself - try it yourself to do what used to be in his jurisdiction - for example, to reach home by public transport and dispose of trash, change a light bulb. Of course, this does not mean that you have to fully handle yourself - wear severity elapsed repair the crane and the like, but you must be absolutely sure need it not just as a medium of physical force, you should see it does not just plumbing, carpentry, and a porter in one person, but a loved one.
