Your destination
Your main mission - to live happily, carefully and accurately. Masterful. Do you seriously suspect that there is a Higher Power, which deals with employment of each of us personally? Which is not just you - me and everyone is dedicated to a particular job, but for good performance awards happiness, and for failure to punish: yearning to engage in loveless affair? I heard this that something like a romantic paganism: "The world is kind and faithful, it gives me the marks I need them to guess. I would be careless - he will punish me, and guess - would be a lot of happiness ... "
It is not faith, it is superstition. Most often, to believe in it like the girls: to believe in what they are at the center of the world that the whole world is for their sake and revolves around them, personally rewarding them or punishing them in person. This is called tsentropupizm: the belief that you personally are the center of the world, that all the people around them, their fate and the events are the only performers thrilling spectacle name you ... kids believe in it seriously. Should I be pushing for an adult?
I do not know if someone has the purpose, each whether it is what it is your destiny and how it is necessarily ... Instead I always try to understand what makes a man is that belief, it is this conviction. It seems that as a child to believe in its mission - good and right. Later - is debatable. Belief in your mission promises you that you can be happy, and encourages the search for the present case. This is important, it's great. But the same faith hides, as a rule, and other interesting premise, namely:
β The present case you have only one.
β Its business you can easily find out. Once you find him - at once automatically and you forever will be happy.
β If you are still not always happy, so what do you do - not your business.
I make these seem to be rather controversial. And dangerous ... I think that in life a person has things more interesting than the dreary search destination. Your life is your love for people and life, is your skill, your lively mind, your freedom of choice - and most importantly and above. Yes, only you have it all?
Contacting "I do not know what the thing in my life I do. I have come to nothing pulls ... "rather typical. Eventually, I discovered a surprising pattern: As a rule, this approach, people who have little they can do well. Who do not know how to do - perfectly. It is true that if a man likes, he starts to do this a lot, with the soul and eventually becomes the master. On the other hand, even the opposite is true: what we can do well, we are beginning to like. Maybe this makes no sense, maybe it's no use to anyone, but if I know how cool a finger to move - either way I have it flies like a living - even a senseless thing is my favorite.
"Why do finger cool?" - "And so, like it!" Adult took place the person knows and believes that the world's many beautiful and necessary things he can do with pleasure and with the sense, especially if they become a master. Anyone who knows how to enjoy life and know how to love (you - know how?), Does not fall to despair. He learns to have fun, with interest acquainted with life and its peculiarities (talent), and a lot of happily working, putting more and more important and more difficult goals. Be a big man to work creatively - and boring to you in life will never happen. Yes? Anyone who knows how to do something artistically, usually do it likes. If you want a love that thing - learn how to do it expertly!
